The Bible encourages a proper view of success. It does not teach
that success is attainable only by a fortunate few. On the other hand, it does
not endorse the storybook fantasy that if you simply ‘follow your dreams’ all
your wishes will come true. That notion—which is all too often spoon-fed to children from an early age—will likely lead to
disappointment.
The
fact is, real success is within the grasp of anyone—but it requires effort. Consider the following principles.
WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS:
“A lover of silver will never be satisfied
with silver, nor a lover of wealth with income.”—Ecclesiastes 5:10.
WHAT IT MEANS. A materialistic lifestyle does not guarantee
satisfaction. In fact, it tends to do the opposite. “People whose primary
motivations are financial are much more likely to be anxious and depressed than
people who value strong relationships with others,” writes Dr. Jean
M. Twenge in her book Generation Me. She adds: “Research consistently finds that money cannot buy
happiness—after you reach a subsistence level, income is not significantly
related to life satisfaction.”
WHAT YOU CAN DO. Set as a goal something more rewarding than
wealth and possessions. “Guard against every sort of greed,” Jesus said,
“because even when a person has an abundance, his life does not result from the
things he possesses.”—Luke 12:15.
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WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS:
“Pride is before a crash, and a haughty spirit
before stumbling.”—Proverbs 16:18.
WHAT IT MEANS. Ambition and conceit will not help you find
true success. In fact, the book Good to Great notes that company leaders who have achieved long-term success
“display a compelling modesty, are self-effacing and understated. In contrast,
two thirds of the comparison companies had leaders with gargantuan personal
egos that contributed to the demise or continued mediocrity of the company.”
The lesson? Thinking too much of yourself is more likely to lead to failure
than success.
WHAT YOU CAN DO. Instead of seeking prestige, cultivate
modesty. The Bible says: “If anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing,
he is deceiving himself”—hardly an indicator of success!—Galatians 6:3.
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WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS:
“There is nothing better for a man than to
. . . find enjoyment in his hard work.”—Ecclesiastes 2:24.
WHAT IT MEANS. If you develop a strong work ethic, you will
likely enjoy your work more. In her book Teach Your Children Well, Dr. Madeline Levine writes: “Part of feeling
successful at something is being good at it and most of being good at something
has to do with effort and persistence.” That includes having the resilience to
deal with occasional setbacks.
WHAT YOU CAN DO. Work hard to become proficient, and do not
give up when faced with obstacles. If you have children, give them (according
to their age and ability) the opportunity to work through their problems. Do
not be hasty to rush in and fix all their problems for them. Young people find
genuine satisfaction—and acquire good training for adulthood—when they develop
resilience.
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WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS:
“A live dog is better off than a dead lion.”—Ecclesiastes 9:4.
WHAT IT MEANS. If you work secularly, your job should be part
of your life—but not your whole life. Really, how successful will you feel if you are at the top
of your profession but lose your health or the respect of your family? People
who are truly successful endeavor to keep their work, health, and family life
in proper balance.
WHAT YOU CAN DO. Take care of yourself. Get proper rest. There
is little benefit in becoming a workaholic who sacrifices everything—health,
family, and friendships—for false success.
WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS:
“Happy are those conscious of their spiritual
need.”—Matthew 5:3.
WHAT IT MEANS. Study of the Bible and application of its
principles are essential ingredients in true success. In fact, millions of
Jehovah’s Witnesses have found that putting spiritual matters first in their
individual lives hasreduced their anxieties over material interests.—Matthew 6:31-33.
WHAT YOU CAN DO. Learn how the Bible can help you to find true success.
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